Monday, June 18, 2012

There's really no place like Home

After over 10 non-stop months (10 months and 6 days if you want to be exact) in France, I am finally back home in the States. But first, let me bring you all up to speed on my previous issue.

So I more or less got my issue with that horrible landlord fixed. After filling out a main courante, my teacher was kind enough to go with me when I went to try and reclaim my deposit check. I hadn’t mentioned to Laurène (the ex-landlord) that I was bringing anyone with me, so as soon as she saw my teacher, (after being late to meet me) her expression instantly changed and she immediately just said that she would go and retrieve my check. Not gonna lie, it wasn’t exactly what I was envisioned. After the way that she had treated Alejandro and I, I had begun to imagine her seeing my bringing an actual French adult as a challenge, which would then have resulted in an exchange of verbal assaults. That didn’t happen, but it had at least been comforting to know that my teacher—as funny and good-natured as she was towards us students-seemed like the kind of typical French citizen that when provoked, was ready to defend herself in a heated argument.
Nope, she just went in, came back with the check and then I gave her the 60 euros she had requested for ‘damages’. I could understand replacing the stained hand towels (I’m gonna take a moment here to be selfish and say that that, was not my doing) but a few hand towels at Monoprix don’t cost 60 euros. She claimed damage to one of the chairs and her wooden mirror, but what she showed me was so minimal it was ludicrous. I was tempted not to give her the 60, but it was what was put in the main courante at the police station for exchange of the check, and my teacher was there, so didn’t want to be seen as that (read: like Laurene) kind of person. So I gave her the 60, but I got my check back, and that’s what counts. I was so relieved, I briefly remember wondering if my knees were going to give out under me.
Afterwards, I profusely thanked my teacher for going out of her way to come with me; I really couldn’t have imagined a teacher being so helpful in that way.
So there’s that, which was last Friday. The days following were mainly filled with packing, cooking/baking for Théo and Guillaume, while coming to the realization that with all the hassle from moving out of Laurène’s apartment, I was ready to leave Paris. The city itself if great, but I was tired of the glacial attitude of the Parisians, and the crummy, rainy weather. Tired of the smell, both on and under the streets in the metro, tired of how expensive transportation and food was, and how long it had suddenly seemed to get anywhere. And not only that, but as I'd been staying at Théo's since leaving that cursed apartment, I'd begun to feel like a burden, especially since Theo was Guillaume were in the middle of their difficult final exams. Unfortunately, our combined stress-his over his studies and mine over my landlord problems-was putting a strain on our relationship. Though when it came down to it, I think a big part of it was that I was so close to leaving.
And then came my final full day in Paris. I got up early, went on a run (something I'd managed to get back into and continued even after moving to Théo's), came back and showered, ate something light, then hit the city one last time with Theo. Stopped by briefly at ISA to say my good-byes, and then basically just wandered around Saint Michel and Île de la Cité. The sun had come out for a bit, and we'd decided to grab a bottle and sit along the Seine, but as we came out of the Monoprix just of Boulevard Saint Germain, the return of a cloudy sky threatened rain, and we switched to just heading back. I made a great asian chicken dinner and prepared both banana/berry and chocolate chip/Bailey's muffins, all of which we enjoyed with a bottle of our favorite hard cider and with The Godfather movie. (Now I can say I've finally seen it!)

Well, up to the end of the movie, we were ok; had succeeded in not dwelling on my impending departure the next morning. But as soon as I got up to clear the dishes, the air quickly became weighed down with a palpable depression. It was rough, but we knew it had been coming. In the end though, we tried and succeeded to reflect instead on the good times we'd had together over the past 10 months. Sleep that night was peaceful.

Morning came at 5:45. Got up, showered, had a quick coffee and we were out the door with my luggage. Took the RER B up to the airport, and before I knew it, it was time to leave. I remember thinking how for the past 2 weeks I'd wanted nothing more than to just go home, to my safe (if crazy) and secure (if not stable) home. And then suddenly, if not terribly surprising, I was having ridiculous half thoughts about just forgoing the plane and staying. But then Théo, bless his heart, began to list off all the great things that were waiting for me at home (a list I'd actually like to post next) and that cheered me up considerably. At least, through my tear-stained face, I was able to give a semblance of a smile and a small wave as I got on the escalator that took me away from him.

Went through security (where they took the rilettes I'd bought as gifts the day before, grrrr) and then boarded the plane a mere 10 minutes later. Was in Frankfurt about an hour or after that.

The trip as a whole was pretty uneventful, though I have to point out that my layover in Frankfurt was rather unpleasant. When I turned to the corner heading to my terminal, my nose was instantly assaulted with a foul sewer smell. Gross. And then they made me pay for my extra suitcase, which I'm not gonna lie, I'd expected to pay in Paris and was then happy when I hadn't. So it wasn't exactly the whole paying part that bothered me so much as the fact that the lady I got was wholly incompetent and had to charge my card twice because she hadn't charged me enough the first time. I got one of the aisle seats in the middle, so sleep came in sparse and never satisfying 15 minute intervals. Plus it never got dark outside, which didn't help.

Arrived in Seattle, but customs took a good 45 minutes. But getting to see Papa after that brought me right back to my childhood, and I had to force myself not to cry. (I think he did too..) Was able to retrieve my luggage fairly quickly and were out of there.
True to his word, and even though I was still pretty tired, I got my promised welcome home dinner of Sam's Sushi. Fish has never tasted so fresh to me in my life.

After that, went back to Papa's where I stayed the night. Decided that I would see Mom and Jen (and Luna, of course!) the next day.
Well, that was my arrival..still more to catch up from these last couple days, but I'll get to that soon.

It's good to be home, Seattle.

More love than ever,

Rachael

Thursday, June 7, 2012

En ce moment, tu ne me plaît pas, Paris

I know I haven't been very faithful to my blog of late, but things have been so stressful lately...still, I reminded myself that it's important to blog about the unpleasant things as well. I'll try to bring you up to speed as concisely as possible, here goes:

 Moved out of the apartment I was in for 3 months last week, and in the middle of my finals week. Alejandro left for the States yesterday, and the landlord was and still is giving us (and now just me) HELL. Harassed us, verbally abused us (this one..seriously, I have never in my life been spoken to like she did) and is still withholding my deposit check for so-called 'damages'. Tricked us into paying for the stupid plumbing bill that I'm beginning to suspect was a whole set-up in the first place. Jesus, with the non-stop anxiety and what I'm sure has been a constant accelerated heartrate, I was starting to consider going to the doctor to get a prescription for a mild sedative...Then I happened to explain to my teacher today why exactly I was late to class this morning (appointment at the bank and then trip to ISA for advice trying to deal with this nightmare) and ended up getting help from her and a guy in my class who I'd totally forgotten was a lawyer (legally only in Egypt, but is half French so knows a bit about the system here). Was accompanied by her (Most helpful teacher alert!) to the nearby police station to put in what they call une main courante which can best be described as a pre-complaint. Sort of like a head's up, I'm kinda having problems and if they get worse, you can see that I had a hunch. Whether or not telling this witch that I went and this that will scare her enough to stop giving me all this made up crap and finally give me my check back, I'm not really sure. But for the time being, the benefit of the doubt has taken a bit of the edge off of the marathon my heart's been running. I might as well enjoy it because who knows what tomorrow will bring..
I miss not having to worry about being so screwed over back home.

In other news, I was accepted into the Paris School of Business for this following year. Ironically, I received my acceptance e-mai; just before the shit hit the fan, so it's had quite the damper put on it. I'll go more into detail and the rest when this nightmare is over...hopefully soon.


Much love,
Rachael